This is a topic that shows up every year like clockwork.
People getting upset when school buses are cancelled and either there wasn't much snow that hit or they don't feel the weather is "dangerous enough" because Canada.
Now, I took the bus in the 90s when I was in high school. We had a dual campus where I was. They were 14KM apart, so they had buses going in the morning, at lunch, and after school. The lunch bus was due to the possibility of having your classes split between both. (Morning at one, afternoon at the other)
When I was in school, there weren't many snow days. There were, however, partial snow days in which kids from further out of town wouldn't have their buses running.
Now, just to explain.
This is the area that the High Scool I went to covered from Terrace Bay to Pays Plat. So for example, if the roads were closed between Schreiber and Rossport, the kids in Rossport and Pays Plat would have a snow day, but we wouldn't. If the whole road was closed, we'd all be off.
Now, I can only speak for the bus consortium I drove in, but where I currently live, the span is much larger. Peterborough County. Many back roads, many secondary roads.
Are they quicker to cancel buses now than when we were kids? Yes.. However... There's things you need to consider that go into those cancellations. Again, I'll use where I drove, Peterborough.. Peterborough City might be ok, but Apsley and the area surrounding could be icy and heavy snowfall. Going towards Lake Ontario could have its own little snow belt that's wreaking havoc. In those areas, there's many dirt roads that are the absolute last priority.
We just saw recently in Ontario, two instances this week of a bus sliding off the road into the ditch. There were injuries on one of the buses. I'm not sure of the other.
Now. What's changed? There are many factors, but I'll cover a few of them..
One: The way the roads were cleared and the criteria to send out the plows has changed. I'm trying to recall, but I believe the Province was responsible for the removal of snow on the highways. They would be out fairly quickly. Then it got moved to the municipalities, who already did removal for their town/city. Because some of the highway plowing was privatized, the plows are slower to get out.
Two: Accidents. Now, the 90s being the 90s and the earlier eras being as they were, bus crashes weren't as exposed as they are now with the internet and social media. It doesn't mean accidents didn't happen. I'm sure there were. But to avoid accidents, the consortiums began looking more into forecasts. And while forecasts can be as predictable as a toddler throwing a tantrum, they are better than thinking it's a great day only to be snowed in by noon.
Third: Everybody is Sue-Happy. I can almost guarantee those parents and people who complain about the number of snow days now will be the first to scream about suing should little Johnny or Tina get injured or worse because of a crash from road conditions.
Honestly, if your kid was in an accident on the bus that could have been prevented, would you shrug and say "Oh well.. It's Canada" like you snarkily say when the buses are cancelled?
This topic has been percolating in my brain for a little bit now. I'm not sure how many songs will be here, but for each one, I'll try to explain what it is that gets me.
War On Drugs - Barenaked Ladies
The first song is one that helped me a lot through my recovery from illness, honestly.. I didn't have an issue with drugs. But some of the other themes in there were prominent.
They say Jesus and mental health
are just for those who can help themselves.
What good is that when you live in hell on earth?
For the very fear that makes you want to die
is just the same as what keeps you alive.
It's way more trouble than some suicide is worth
It was a dark time for me. I was laid up in the hospital with an illness that almost killed me. Recovery from that was difficult. There were days I wanted to end it all.. I'm too stubborn to though...
St. Elmo's Fire - John Parr
This song was helpful in the recovery process. After listening to it, I hope you can see why.
The song helped me push through those days where all I wanted to do is lay in bed and mope. Those days where I didn't want to tackle the stairs or walk the same stretch of hallway yet again..
Plus, the man this song was written for, Rick Hansen, used his wheelchair to cross multiple countries to raise awareness for accessibility for disabled persons. Starting in 1985, he went through 34 countries on his tour including wheeling up to the Great Wall of China.
Better Than You - Moist
I first heard this song and album in University. I really enjoy most of the album, but this one catches me.
I've had an issue with self-worth and self-esteem for most of my life. Doesn't help being called useless and having multiple jokes played on you in high school. It also doesn't help that the only thing I really know is rejection aside from a couple cases. So the line "everyone is better than you" hits me more than it should.
I know the perspective is the singer saying this to someone else, but it hits me hard..
Better Version - Shinedown
This one gets me because of one point in my life. While I was married, my ex wife seemed to love the ideal version she had of me in her head rather than the human in front of her. More than once, she said to me "When I look at you, all I see is fat"
So this song, to me, is both a sarcastic reponse to complaints about the person and things they can't really control.
What I don't need is to concede because I won't be someone else
I am not perfect and I don't claim to be
And if that's what you wanted
Well then I'm so sorry
How about a better version of the way that I am?
How about a better version that makes me understand?
How about a better version of the way that I am?
The way I look, The way I speak,
How about a better version of me?
Shades of Grey - Billy Joel
I've liked this song since I first got the album. This and No Man's Land were my favourites after River of Dreams.
Now, I've always been a little different. When it comes to social issues or other issues along those lines, I've never been a Black and White person.
I'm seeing more Black and White thinking nowadays than I ever remember seeing before. You're either with us or against us seems to be the prevailing mentallity now.
Having the ability to see multiple angles of an issue is tiring and honestly very annoying. I consider all the angles, all the evidence before me and comment. In many cases, what I say will piss someone off.
Now with the wisdom of years I try to reason things out And the only people I fear Are those who never have doubts Save us all from arrogant men And all the causes they're for I won't be righteous again I'm not that sure anymore
Some things were perfectly clear Seen with the vision of youth No doubts and nothing to fear I claimed the corner on truth These days it's harder to say "I know what I'm fighting for" My faith is falling away I'm not that sure anymore
To me, there are many issues now that come to the forefront that are divisive. What was once called compassion and empathy is now called "Woke" Seeing people at each other's throats for reasons like who they vote for, whether or not they got vaccinated, if you don't agree with the idea of "Round 'em all up and send 'em away. If we get some actual citizens in there, OOops"
To me, I'm the singer's POV. Looking around at chaos and while others see Black and White, I see shades of grey.
So, the few people who lurk on this blog, what say you? What songs speak to you?